My buddy James Dailey grew up with Gary Payton in Oakland, and the two of them used to play basketball together all the time. Back in the day, Dailey was also one of several young boys that Gary Payton’s dad, Al Payton, used to shuttle around all the time – you know, to games and gyms around the Bay Area and beyond.
Al Payton, known affectionately as “Mr. Mean,” passed away on Sept. 2. He will long be remembered for his tough exterior, no-nonsense approach and, quite frankly, his nasty look.
But Dailey, who grew up playing on Al Payton’s “We Are Family” teams doesn’t think of him like that at all. In fact, he remembers Gary’s father as someone who was as kind, gentle and caring as you could find. And also someone who was indispensable at keeping him on the straight and narrow as a kid.
“When I was in fifth or sixth grade, look, I had issues at home,” said Dailey, who played collegiately at St. Mary’s and is now a successful business owner. “We had some problems there, let’s just say. I lived three blocks away from Gary so I always was the last one to be dropped off, me and Gary. He used to take us to Giant Burger or somewhere and we’d eat. He never said a word, it was never brought up, but he knew what was going on at home. He figured if I was with him for the night, it would be cool and that I’d be fed.
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